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The world is a scary place

so we decided to have a family holiday this year and go somewhere a bit different, we normally go to Spain! So I got on google and had a look around and a place called Oludeniz came up in Turkey, looked beautiful, bright green sea and white beaches sold it for us! The week after we booked we were at racing when someone asked if we had seen the paper as there was an article about Turkey being on high alert from a terrorist attack and British tourists were at high risk! So typical, we book a nice holiday then get scared into going! I decided not to let it worry me and then a week later the Tunisia terror attack happened……

It’s a bit of a wake up call when terrorist attacks happen and especially ones that involve British people. It’s a horrible reminder of the evil in the world and that nobody knows what’s round the corner. I live in a very small town with very little crime and not a lot going on and to see British people like me getting shot on the beach on holiday is so scary. I can’t even find the words to describe it. It’s devastating and heartbreaking to think that those people were relaxing and enjoying the sunshine not knowing what’s around the corner. It must have been so scary being in that situation, in fact I can’t even begin to imagine it. So that’s Tunisia tourism ruined for a long time. And the cause of it…. Pure evil, people that have possibly been brainwashed or people that just genuinely believe they have a good reason to kill innocent people, it may be religion, beliefs, revenge for something, politics, war, or other reasons that we may never know. One thing I know is that I will never understand it and never come to terms with how someone can just end an innocent persons life. 

The reality is though that this is the real world and this is what happens and worse. This is the world we are bringing out Children up in and the world our grandchildren, great grandchildren and future generations are living in. As long as we live in our little town out the way we feel a sense of safety as if we are out the way of it all and unlikely to experience the terror going on in the world. 

So everyone is saying they wouldn’t go to Turkey and wouldn’t book a holiday in a Muslim country because of the extremists. I don’t think you can blame Muslims, yes religion plays a part in this but there’s good and bad people everywhere and I don’t want to hide away. In Tunisis the hotel staff that were Muslims tried to stop the gunman and risked their lives doing it which just shows that there’s as many good people as there are bad and you can’t judge everyone basedon obe persons evil actions. 

Oludinez looks beautiful and a fantastic part of the world to visit. Turkey is on a high alert but then so is France, Spain and England. Is anywhere safe? Probably not, if these extremists are going to attack us then it could be anywhere and could happen anywhere. If we stop visiting these countries then they have won. There are good and bad people everywhere and attacks can happen anywhere in the world. Obviously it’s going to be in our minds when we are abroad but we just need to go and have a great holiday and not let them win by scaring us out the area. 

I just think it’s such a shame that this is now the world we live in and it’s not just a small group of people but a billion dollar army of nutcase extremists that are willing to die for what they are doing and what they believe in. The scary thing is that when they die they want to take as many innocent people with them and there doesn’t week to be a lot going on to stop them! Although what is going on in the government and military is way above my intelligence level! 

So a week from now we will be in Oludinez wondering what all the fuss was about and having a fantastic holiday! Or at least that’s the plan! 

Amsterdam

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This started off as a short blog post and has perhaps turned into my longest blog post yet!!!
As far as traveling goes i am more of a sunshine and scenic sort of traveler, I love coastal views, scenic places, peace and tranquility! So I am still asking myself why I thought for my 30th Birthday and once chance at some holiday off work I chose Amsterdam! I think it is just one of those things I wanted to tick off my imaginary list of things I have experienced!

So the total trip for 2 people without spending money was £450. This was including ferry crossings and 2 nights I. A central hotel so not bad I thought. The ferry crossings were the overnight ferries with a room so 2 people, 4 nights plus crossings and transfers for £450 seemed ok.
On arrival in Amsterdam the first thing I thought was how busy it was! Everyone going at a really fast pace, if you stopped walking to look in a shop window for example then you got run over by other people or push bikes! Push bikes were absolutist everywhere and they don’t stop for you, you just have to move for them!!
The hotel was very central and 1 street away from the Red Light District so great location but very noisy and busy. The room was not exactly the normal standard I stay in and had a bit of a funny smell but was clean and tidy so no complaints!

Amsterdam itself on a whole is quite a strange yet endearing place and I really feel I need to share my experiences with anyone interested and looking to go! I will start with the good stuff! The bits I loved and enjoyed!
I am not normally into buildings but found the architecture quite fantastic. All the buildings were very tall and amazing looking and all minimum of 3 floors. I went in a shop called Forever 21 which was women’s wear and the shop was over 6 floors! I found myself taking a lot of pictures of all the buildings.
The other significant thing about Amsterdam is the canals and the canal network. Every street pretty much has a canal running through it. I really liked this and loved looking at all the boats going up and down. The Atmosphere in Amsterdam is quite something, it’s very busy and everyone Is happy (maybe something to do with the drugs being smoked!)
The other main thing I liked in Amsterdam was the food and restaurants! We love a decent meal and love eating out and my well built steel erector husband could live off steak if he had too! The streets are just lined with Argentinian Steak houses! Why Argentinian? I don’t know and have the answer, maybe Argentina produce the best steaks?! Either way you found one street could have 10 steak houses to choose from! We must have eaten in about 4 different steak houses over the few days and the steaks were good!!!

So now on to the bad stuff, in fact no not the bad stuff at all, none of it was bad, it was just different, more of a strange experience than an enjoyment!!

firstly my views and experience on the lenient drugs laws! A very strange going on but not something I am going to criticise! I don’t do drugs, never have, I don’t even smoke cigarettes so had no intention of smoking anything in amsterdam just because it’s legal! Its interesting to see though, in certain areas the streets just stink of it, you may not plan on smoking it but walk past a coffee shop and breath in at the wrong time and you don’t have a choice!! The one thing I do find really strange is my husband lit an ordinary cigarette in a bar as he occasionally smokes and got shouted at by the bar maid, “no no no” “no Tabbacco, only weed” So it’s legal to smoke drugs in bars but not cigarettes!!
As mentioned above I have no interest in doing drugs but when in Amsterdam it is so normal! It’s not seedy or wrong, it’s just the norm! That said I still wasn’t going to be smoking anything strange as I like to feel in control of my mind and don’t like getting really drunk never mind stoned……famous last words!
Not sure whose idea it was to eat space cake but when a nice slice of Chocolate cake is presented to you smelling delicious then a few bites won’t hurt!! Well an hour later I am sat in a bar feeling a bit hazy laughing at anything and everything! I didn’t feel like I had taken drugs but more just really happy! Literally giggling at everything like an idiot! I can understand why people do it because everyone likes to be happy but it won’t he something I will be repeating again anytime soon!!

The Red Light District – Again a very strange experience but one I would recommend to anyone visiting. Through the day the red light district is a few streets of bars and nice buildings and you wouldn’t even know it was the red light district! Then as the evening settles in the red lights start coming on and it’s a totally different place. If you just stand on the bridge looking down the streets it’s just a sea of red lights glowing but the crowds of people that visit this area is quite spectacular! We had a walk down and it’s just window after window of girls in underwear trying to coax you in!
And one thing I noticed is these girls are not ugly, some of them are stunning with fantastic figures and it saddened me that they are doing this every night for whatever reason.
I started to think about the reasons they do this and why? Maybe some see it as easy money and enjoy it, maybe to others it’s a way of life and that’s all they know, and then there’s the ones that look a little sad, you can see in their eyes they don’t want to be there so either they are forced or they feel they have no other option which is really sad.
We sat in a bar at the red light district and just people watched. It’s not great when you see the curtains closed and know what’s going on but Interesting to watch the men coming out after, and these guys are just ordinary men, not your stereotypical weirdo but men with wedding rings on, or young lads on stag weekends! I thought I would hate the red light district and find it seedy and dark and dirty but in actual fact it was very interesting and an absolute must do for anyone visiting Amsterdam.

The other thing to mention is value for money, the average drink is about 5 euros but in some bars located around the tourist areas it’s between 8 -12 Euros a drink!! the average meal in the steak houses is between 15 – 20 Euros, shopping is very expensive but there are some amazing shops so if you can afford it then a look round the shops is worth doing!
So that was it really, our weekend consisted of 2 ferry crossings, a lot of steak, my first space cake experience and a lot of walking round the red light district! I think we did everything in Amsterdam we could have done in the short space of time we were there but to be honest I’m not sure I would want to stay any longer than 2 days!

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